Love like many say, is not enough, so to add to giving unconditional love to your kid(s)learn to:
Instruct and teach your kids
Attention is the key for winning kids these days.
you could say I love you and not be around to help form their character and how to handle life, or fold your sleeves and show your love by passing instructions that you will be ready to back up with love.
Like I said earlier, it is either you make a commitment to impart virtues into your kids today for a long standing legacy you’ll be proud of or suffer the consequences which would build over their formative years among many could include; violent behaviors, withdrawn attitudes that depict funny involvements in cults, drugs, pornography or any other social vices, just to mention but a few.
Let this guide you, ‘what you do not teach your kids they will pick from others’ and guess who suffers the shame and pain, yes! Got it like I knew you would – You!
Friday, October 29, 2010
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
How to be the Father your kids desire
In his world of video games, football, and internet there is very little a man can do when he has lost the attention of his kids, did I say very little a man can do? yes!
If there is anything you can do, it will be looking for how to get the attention of a kid that alread thinks you to be too old fashioned for today and probably too jealous to admit you wished you were they.
Even if you had a way, you will have to be prepared to face a barage of word assaults to get even an iota of attention, so how does this article help, simple, this message is to help you try not to loose your kids attention in the first place, and if you have, this piece would do just fine.
Now for the clues
Learn to Show your kids unconditional love
Yep, learn, as a man you are likely going to be overtaken by ego by trying to always insist things be done your way, because you think you love them. Get a life, there’s no use saying you love someone and all you do is either bully as a form of showing affection or buy fancy presents, jewelries and that’s it. Many kids today like to have their dad say it and mean it.
Why, you ask?
Kids these days can smell a lie from miles away. They can easily tell when you’re faking it, which also would cause them to fake obedience. And if you must be outstanding as a father you must understand this, children need your ‘presence’ and not your ‘presents’
this would lead to our next tip...
If there is anything you can do, it will be looking for how to get the attention of a kid that alread thinks you to be too old fashioned for today and probably too jealous to admit you wished you were they.
Even if you had a way, you will have to be prepared to face a barage of word assaults to get even an iota of attention, so how does this article help, simple, this message is to help you try not to loose your kids attention in the first place, and if you have, this piece would do just fine.
Now for the clues
Learn to Show your kids unconditional love
Yep, learn, as a man you are likely going to be overtaken by ego by trying to always insist things be done your way, because you think you love them. Get a life, there’s no use saying you love someone and all you do is either bully as a form of showing affection or buy fancy presents, jewelries and that’s it. Many kids today like to have their dad say it and mean it.
Why, you ask?
Kids these days can smell a lie from miles away. They can easily tell when you’re faking it, which also would cause them to fake obedience. And if you must be outstanding as a father you must understand this, children need your ‘presence’ and not your ‘presents’
this would lead to our next tip...
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