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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

How to be the Father your kids desire

In his world of video games, football, and internet there is very little a man can do when he has lost the attention of his kids, did I say very little a man can do? yes!

If there is anything you can do, it will be looking for how to get the attention of a kid that alread thinks you to be too old fashioned for today and probably too jealous to admit you wished you were they.

Even if you had a way, you will have to be prepared to face a barage of word assaults to get even an iota of attention, so how does this article help, simple, this message is to help you try not to loose your kids attention in the first place, and if you have, this piece would do just fine.

Now for the clues

Learn to Show your kids unconditional love

Yep, learn, as a man you are likely going to be overtaken by ego by trying to always insist things be done your way, because you think you love them. Get a life, there’s no use saying you love someone and all you do is either bully as a form of showing affection or buy fancy presents, jewelries and that’s it. Many kids today like to have their dad say it and mean it.

Why, you ask?
Kids these days can smell a lie from miles away. They can easily tell when you’re faking it, which also would cause them to fake obedience. And if you must be outstanding as a father you must understand this, children need your ‘presence’ and not your ‘presents’

this would lead to our next tip...

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