Enjoying your kids

This will be (if not I would have told ya!) the concluding step to being that great father of parent your kids would love.

Having gone through various steps (check the post), what I have for you today is this final step - Learn to enjoy your child or children whichever applies.

Kids are fun to be with. Your ability to learn and commit yourself to spending quality time with them would make a big difference both to them as well as to you.

Think about this, you want your kid's attention but you would rather watch a football game than taking time off to know which game your kid is interested in, or how he or she is faring with school and peer pressure, that my friend, is going to drive a Brooklyn Bridge distance between you and your kid and we do not need that do we?

so, the way out?

I thought I told you, :)

devotedly spend time with your kid, enjoy his or her company, get to know what he or she likes, take time out for a walk, just have fun together, be there when you are needed, share moments.

Kids love attention, that I could tell ya, from my experience with my daughter, she wants daddy to see this and see that!

You owe your kids a great deal, you owe them love - go beyond yourself and give them that love you possibly never enjoyed.

Hope this helps you as much as it helped me,leave a comment would ya?

How to be the Father your kids love - step 3

Are you losing your kid(s) to games, drugs and the likes?

Maybe its just because with the extra loving and instruction you have been giving, there needs to be and addition of this vital step in winning kids and that is our number three today.

Learn to Correct your kid in Love

Irrespective of the behavioral patterns of kids at various stages of their life, LOVE is still the glue that keeps not just families but friends together and that is what we want for you right? yea, kids love to be told how they could do better next time when they mess up - same goes for yours too.

so the key?

1. Never correct your kid when you are angry

2. Avoid making any form of remarks when in that state of anger, why? you might just say something that you may forever regret in life.

3. Never correct without giving a good reason for the correction, why? that kid may just do it all over again,meaning - no message got, no lesson learned.

Discipline is good for kids, especially when in their formative years. I believe kids should be disciplined in a loving manner knowing that it took a hell of a job to get them from conception to delivery. I ain't ready to loose my kid to an act I could control and deal with.

what do you think?

stick around for other steps..