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Thursday, November 4, 2010

How to be the Father your kids love - step 3

Are you losing your kid(s) to games, drugs and the likes?

Maybe its just because with the extra loving and instruction you have been giving, there needs to be and addition of this vital step in winning kids and that is our number three today.

Learn to Correct your kid in Love

Irrespective of the behavioral patterns of kids at various stages of their life, LOVE is still the glue that keeps not just families but friends together and that is what we want for you right? yea, kids love to be told how they could do better next time when they mess up - same goes for yours too.

so the key?

1. Never correct your kid when you are angry

2. Avoid making any form of remarks when in that state of anger, why? you might just say something that you may forever regret in life.

3. Never correct without giving a good reason for the correction, why? that kid may just do it all over again,meaning - no message got, no lesson learned.

Discipline is good for kids, especially when in their formative years. I believe kids should be disciplined in a loving manner knowing that it took a hell of a job to get them from conception to delivery. I ain't ready to loose my kid to an act I could control and deal with.

what do you think?

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